so this has been a heck of a week
rounded off with one weird drive
I AM OFFICIALLY A COLLEGE GRADUATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have an Associate's Degree in Graphic Design from Westwood College
i don't have the diploma on me, the school will give it to me August 2nd at graduation
yeah my graduation is EXACTLY two years after i started there
its pretty sweet
right now i'm feeling great about it
this has been a good week
a good day
a good yesterday
I SAW SYDNEE TODAY FOR AN HOUR OR TWO
her boyfriend and her came down here to support a friend in a Super Smash Bros. Brawl tournament
he lost the first round cause he got totally screwed
but hey at least i got to hang out with Syd!
caught up a bit
and what not
yea man good day!
got MAJORLY lost afterwards
probably for 2 hours
but oh well
this was fun!
ADVENTURE TIME!
there is this awesome concert going on tonight
like right now i hear
and i could totally go, and i kinda want to
but you know what
i don't think i want to return to the sight of everyone yet
i disappeared a year ago
and i don't think i'm ready to resurface
plus, i don't want to deal with two people anymore
ok here is another story,
something i realized last night
i have these two friends i'm constantly getting angry at
one of the most terrifying things to see is me pissed off
i'm not kidding or exaggerating in the least
and they are getting close
i realized this late last night about them
neither one of them truly respects the value of friendship
they are constantly making each other mad
both of them lie a LOT
the girl lies more than the guy, like you have absolutely no idea
and both of them deny it
how about the truth
no matter what it is
just tell the truth
neither of them understand the other
whatsoever
they don't understand how to treat friends
BOTH OF THEM GOT MAD AT ME THIS WEEK OVER THE SAME THING
what was it?
they thought i was using them for one thing
when in REALITY, here that REALITY,
i just wanted to either talk with them and make plans work out and shorten up journeys
i hung out with both of them last night
i BEARLY talked with the girl, and i didn't even say a word to the guy
honestly, i'm mad at both of them
like they're going to care
here's exactly what they will do, both of them
and if they don't, i'll be surprised like you can't believe
they will deny it, they will push it away
and they will try to turn the tables back onto me
they will be mad at me,
what will i do in return?
i'll stand my ground
know why?
cause i won't back down when i know i'm right
i won't back down when someone else is doing wrong
and they are doing themselves, each other, and everyone else wrong,
and they both know it
but refuse to accept it because they've done it soooo long
and no one is willing to fight them and make them change
until now
now when they realize they are wrong,
and they will both do this,
they'll start talking with me later like absolutely nothing happened
like they aren't mad at me
like i'm not mad at them
but you know what
i am mad at them, i won't back down,
i won't stop now,
for the interest of peace maybe let bygones be bygones?
HELL NO!
NOT THIS TIME!
i want them to actually change,
stop lying,
stop deceiving,
stop being jerks,
stop being idiots,
stop doing the stupid things they do for themselves that hurt friendships
what is the one last thing that gets to me the most?
they have problems
and they tell me
and i try to help by giving them advice,
the guy still seeks me for help, but he doesn't listen, he doesn't try to do what i suggest,
and the girl just stopped because she didn't want my help,
she knows when i tell her something, i am right, but she wants to do things her way,
she wants to continue to do the worst things for her and everyone else
why? cause she prefers to do that than give up what will hurt her completely
when i give advice, just try it, when it fails, then tell me i was wrong
don't just ignore my atempts to help you,
then tell me nothing is going right, that you don't know what to do
I JUST TOLD YOU WHAT TO DO!!!
now when what i told you fails, then tell me that,
don't tell me the same old bullcrap you just can't deal with and you don't know what to do about
cause now
all i see is you trying to get attention,
and thats all i'll treat it like now
you've both lost my respect
and i don't trust either of you
because the way i see it is you don't trust me enough to listen to me
you don't trust me enough to try out my help
you two don't trust me, or each other, or anyone i guess
you both just want attention
neither of you really want the pain to stop
so let it be
go hurt yourselves and each other
but i won't be apart of it till you pull your heads out of your butts
and realize this whole time i was right
don't tell me you haven't lied to me
i have caught both of you in SEVERAL lies
and i just ignored saying anything
but not anymore
i'll tell you when you are wrong
i'll tell you when you've screwed up and don't want to accept it
i'll try to help you when you're in pain
i'll be here to help you
but only when you pull your head out of your butt
and realize the things you've done were wrong
and that you may not like what i have to say
that you may be afraid of what i have to say
that what i might say may make you cry your eyes out for hours
but what i have to say will help you more than you know
sometimes the tears are necessary
like when i cried all last summer and fall
those tears i cried healed me
and God spoke to my heart when i cried
He healed me and let me know all will be ok
He told me what to do
He held my hand in the darkness then like He is doing right now
and i'm not afraid anymore because of Him and His Love
but first i had to cry
friendship means knowing someone at their best and their worst,
knowing all their faults and failures,
and loving them still the same,
standing by them in the dark and the light
and holding their hand when they don't know where to go
or what to do
friendship is love
its stronger than almost anything else
and friendship only ends when you can't love back
i will love you and be your friend,
but you don't trust me, you don't really love me or yourselves
and i can't do anything for you until you learn to trust me
until then
i pray you come back into the light,
i'll be standing right there waiting for your return
well i've got out a lot today
and i hope that all will be going great for you this weekend and new week
God bless you all and take care!
Enjoy Triumph! ^_^